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Tuesday, November 15, 2011

No1 Can Steal Your Salvation

One argument that people tend to make regarding salvation or “being saved” is whether or not you can lose it or not. Paul said in Colossians 1:21-23: “If indeed you continue in the faith” means it is possible you might not continue in faith. In other words, there is eternal security in Christ as long as you stay in Christ. No one can steal your salvation or force you into losing your salvation. God will not let you go. However, I believe the word teaches us that it is possible for a Christians to forfeit or give up his salvation.

As I stated earlier, an individual gets saved by receiving Jesus as Savior and Lord by faith…In other words confessing with your mouth and believing in your heart. Jesus was, and is, a gift from God to the world. Therefore, salvation is a gift. There is only one way to obtain a gift, and that is to receive it. You can’t buy it, you cannot earn it, and there is nothing you can do to become worthy of it. The moment you buy something, earn it, or work hard enough to receive it, it ceases to be a gift. It, rather, becomes a reward for works-or it is earned, such as a salary, which is compensation for work done.
If you did not earn your salvation by doing works, then you cannot lose it by works. Somehow we seem to believe that the Blood of Jesus is powerful enough to save us, but not powerful enough to keep us.

He died for you…why would he let you go?

What do you think?

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Mother's Empty Chair

Just wanted 2 share this story....ENJOY!

A woman’s daughter had asked the local minister to come and pray with her mother. When the minister arrived, he found the woman lying in bed with her head propped up on two pillows. An empty chair sat beside her bed. The minister assumed that the woman had been informed of his visit.”I guess you were expecting me, he said.’ No, who are you?” said the mother. The minister told her his name and then remarked, “I saw the empty chair and I figured you knew I was going to show up.”
“Oh yeah, the chair,” said the bedridden woman. “Would you mind closing the door?” Puzzled, the minster shut the door.”I have never told anyone this, not even my daughter,” said the woman.”But all of my life I have never known how to pray. At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head.” I abandoned any attempt at prayer,” the woman continued,” until one day four years ago; my best friend said to me, “Betty, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation with Jesus. Here is what I suggest. “Sit down in the chair; place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on chair. It’s not spooky because he promised, ‘I will be with you always’. “Then just speak to him in the same way you’re doing with me right now.” So, I tried it and I’ve liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every day.  I’m careful though. If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she’d either have a nervous breakdown or send me off to the funny farm.” The minister was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the woman to continue on the journey. Then he prayed with her, anointed her with oil, and returned to the church. Two nights later the daughter called to tell the minister that her mother had died that afternoon. Did she die in peace?” he asked. Yes, when I left the house about two o’clock, she called me over to her bedside, told me she loved me and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store and hour later, I found her. But there was something strange about her death. Apparently, just before Mother died, she leaned over and rested her head on the chair beside the bed. What do you make of that?” The minister wiped a tear from his eye and said, “ I wish we could all go like that.”
Prayer is one of the best free gifts we receive.

I asked God for water, He gave me an ocean.

I asked God for a friend, He gave me all of you…

If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

Happy moments, praise God.

Difficult moments, seek God.

Quiet moments, worship God.

Painful moments, trust God.

Every moment, thank God.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Doin U: At Who’s Expense?

“Doin U” is living your life for you: not a means to an end for others!
This means that I should exist for my own sake, neither sacrificing myself to others, nor sacrificing others to myself! The pursuit of my own rational self-interest, and happiness, is the highest moral purpose of my life!
If I must deal with others,

It should be as Traders, in a pure capitalist system.

No charity! No sympathy! Just business,

an exchange of value for value.

Or in dating terms “Friends With Benefits”!

But where does love fit into this system?

See if everything is viewed as a business arrangement between

Traders without charity, then how can you have love?

Love is supposed to be selfless.

Or is this that New School LOVE?

Where LOVE is selfish. …

If you see someone of value,

and they see value in you…

want access to this value, so you

arrange a business transaction.

Love used to be worth the risk smh

Now people are turning into Modern day Hoes

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Harsh Reality

Disenchantment comes from the realization that the world isn’t what you perceived it to be! People lie, cheat, and steal and get away with it. Murders become COLD CASES! Marriages end in divorce…while mothers and fathers become Baby Mamas & Baby Daddies.
There are people who only deal with you because they think it might be beneficial to them…(Alcohol, Weed, Money, & Sex).
We are raised in this fairy tale world, where there aren’t any moral grey areas, where good and bad are clear, where there was never any real doubt over which side would win in the end! (Good of course)…but each horrifying death reported in the paper... made you a little more cynical: a little deader inside.
Maybe this sense of disenchantment came from not a flawed society, but a rather growing realization that we ourselves are flawed? Nothing’s more depressing than realizing that you can’t live up to your own hopes, that you’ll never live out your dreams, that you probably let those you care about down every day!



"I Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens Me"

Philippians 4:13

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Food 4 Thought

1. Are you too busy acting like a Christian to be one? ...........unkown

2. You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving........unknown

3. Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. .. Martin Luther King Jr.

4. Always love your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.... Oscar Wilde

5. There is a past which is gone forever, but there is a future which is still our own....F W Robertson

6. Time itself is an individual gift. It is wise to cherish it carefully and give it away generously. .....Maya Angelou

7. People spend a lifetime searching for happiness, peace and success. They chase idle dreams, addictions, and religions hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within.......unkown

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Is There Enough Room In Your Marriage For Another

This whole “Marriage” subject

has gotten me thinking

about monogamy.

…..Not whether or not I can or have

been monogamous, because that’s a

non issue (not to mention I love my fiancé and value my life as well)

My concern is that people have totally pushed morals to the side.

In the past sharing yourself with more than 1 person was frowned upon….

Not to mention catching sh*t penicillin can’t cure lls and the pain it cost your partner

isn’t quite worth the risk.

The Morals of Marriage have gone by the waist side for what people consider to be “Happiness

I did some research!

I found a book called “The Ethical Slut

This book discusses how to live an active

Life with multiple concurrent sexual relationships

in a fair and honest way. Discussion topics include

how to deal with the practical difficulties and opportunities in finding and keeping partners, maintaining

relationships with others, and strategies for personal growth.


To me this makes a slut sound ethical duh smh… which I’m not here to judge…just stating what I’ve interpreted and to me that makes no sense….It implies that you can love someone, want him or her to be happy…but that shouldn’t change by having sex with additional people.

May be this makes sense to others,

but not to me….


When I was younger I probably would have thought it was possible..

but giving yourself to one is the ultimate commitment if you ask me.

The book also posits that an artificial ‘economy of scarcity’ in sex leads to jealousy and possessiveness.

This is pretty much saying that

because sex is ‘rare’ it has and increased value, and is therefore

treasured unreasonably? It’s not anti-monogamy, but it’s pro-polygamy.

Don’t you find that these things don’t usually work

in real life? I know I want my partner

To be happy, but I also want all of her hugs and kisses to myself?

What do you think?

Friday, March 25, 2011

Who's In Control

I’ve been


If my decisions

are based on my

desires, and my

desires are just

the product of

genetics and

environmental factors

beyond my control,

then I have no

control over the decisions that I make! Right!

See, If I am a product of my environment or

genetically predisposed, then each actions

I take….. could not have been taken any other way.

Meaning I had No Choice!

Like sleeping with any chick that I know isn’t going benefit me to say the least (UGLY) or (Dysfunctional)  smh

I could say that "Poppa Was A Rolling Stone" and that it’s in me to knock her down…or

all the men in my family are "Alcoholics" so there’s really no avoiding it.

I would also be implying that Free Will doesn’t exist.

Wouldn’t that be convenient?

This Theory fails to account

the fact that we

obviously can make decisions,

and that we do so constantly

on a regular basis…not to mention that

#SlaveryIsOver .

Can you tell me that you

Think that your brain is

Nothing more than a

Complicated computer with

Delusions of


If you think Yes

than you

are probably


Let’s stop with the #ResponsibilityDeflection

and take back control over our Lives.

Friday, February 25, 2011

Polluted Wisdom

What Are You Listening To?

What Company Are You Keeping?

Luke 8:18 (New King James Version)

18. “Therefore take heed how you hear. For whoever has, to him more will be given; and whoever does not have, even what he seems to have will be taken from him.”

What you have in this life is tied to what you hear on a daily basis and what you hear affects your faith. This is why Jesus goes on to tell His disciples that whoever has, more will be given and whoever does not have, even what he seems to have will be taken from him. If you don’t use your faith, which is a product of what you hear, then you will not be able to obtain or protect the things of this life. That goes the same with who you keep in your presence on a daily basis affects to some degree affect what you believe. …because people around you can have an influence on your thoughts.
People today love not knowing cause Ignorance is #bliss…. And people take pride in not knowing..Listen to the music of today which goes completely against God’s word or gives out false representations of what God’s Word is. You got albums with Love making hits on it and on that same album have the nerve to include gospel songs smh. #MentalGames their playing and the shame is the crime is undetectable by the Feds
Cuz in the head of our kids is where the track is

And the music shoots str8ght to the soul it’s so potent

So much more addictive than crack…now the high is just an illusion

Lies and confusion…but just for that rush the young bucks will listen to it

So in essence… their still flooding these streets with drugs and killing

Their just using record labels to do them.

See America makes you an opportunist..

Then at the same time institutionalize you..

So the fact that you see people getting these fat record deals, big money, then go to jail

Shouldn’t surprise you..

That’s what lies do

and most of these guys have raw talent..just infantile education

So the business feed them
All the weed, ecstasy,
And the little bit of paper to provide
Some pacification from all the bullsh*t
Frustration they serve you

See they took all of our business men and made the drug dealers….

Took all of our messengers and made the rappers ..just flapping their gums afraid to admit their treason.

Took all of our soldiers and made the killer for no reason …

And being f cked up…that’s in this season

So if you’re negative you positive and if you’re positive you’re called a #hater….

That’s why I maintain control over my soul…because I know it get greater later….

And I can do all through God my creator…

That’s why Jesus lets us know by acting on faith, that you will be able to receive and keep all that the Lord has for you. So, If you “do not have”, then you need to check up on what you have been hearing, and consequently believing in your heart and confessing with your mouth.

Monday, January 31, 2011

Getting Into Character: What's Yours

In life we all have a purpose….we all have a fundamental reason we exist.

That’s simply means

that we all have some affect over your life and our own.

We are MothersFathers….Sisters….BrothersBest friends….Confidants

employersemployees…and even if you are unemployed, drug addicted and homeless

Your Lives Are Not In Vain!

More Importantly we are  Men/Women 1st
Some of us grasp our purpose early on, while the rest of us go through a multitude of trials and tribulations to finally figure it out.
Others die trying ….not realizing that your purpose really isn’t that hard to find.

I know that I am guilty of making life harder than it really is….I’ve over analyzed the littlest things,
complicating things that may make one question life itself…..but in the end I found out that
I am faith, trust, hope! I am the profound belief in a power larger and more important than us. I am truth and beauty! I am love and humility!  If you notice faith, trust, hope! I am the profound belief in a power larger and more important than us is the definition of Religion… That’s all we are people… Believe in something  …..You have a better chance at cracking this thing called Life.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Quotes 2 Live By: Don't Be Your Own Worst Enemy

1.       We must learn how to let go of things and have faith that GOD will always do what's best. We can't always see what's best, but GOD can….unkown
2.    A pessimist is one who makes difficulties of his opportunities and an optimist is one who makes opportunities of his difficulties…..unkown
3.       The worst regret we can have in life is not for the wrong things we did, But for the thousands of right things we did for the wrong one…..unkown
4.       Sometimes in life you'll fall apart with a broken heart, but one day you'll realize that you'll be alright….unkown
5.       Please learn the difference between instincts and assumptions: you aren't always right and they aren't always wrong!....Pastor Jamal Bryant
6.       Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure….Marianne Williamson
7.       Optimism is the foundation of courage….. Nicholas Murray Butler
8.       He who can take advice is sometimes superior to him who can give it.…Erica Jong
9.      When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place…unkown
10.    Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, but the realization of how much you already have…..unkown
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