2day is the first of my Thursday SHOUTOUTS
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Jasmine is a very insightful writer who offers you creative writing that's funny, intellectual, and very thought provoking. She is very versatile. Her is 1 of her post that I found interesting.
The Thrill Of The Chase http://eyekandee05.wordpress.com/
The thought of wanting what you can’t have is what adds fuel to our fire. Is it that you really want what you are seeking so desperately, simply because you can’t have it? Some of us operate this way. I can remember a time myself where I wanted to be with a certain someone to where it consumed my thoughts day and night. I stopped at nothing. Every trick and tactic you can think of; I did. And yet, it got me nowhere. It was only after I realized I was driving myself insane did I stop. It took absolutely no time for him to come knocking on my door trying to get back in once he figured out I had moved on. I ended up going back simply because I had wanted the relationship to work for so long, or so I thought. To be honest, I was completely miserable! I was in a place where my heart wasn’t and I’m not the type of person to fake it till I make it, so I bounced…I guess it was just the thrill of the chase (rejection).
9 comments:
Thanks for sharing Champ! I have BEEN here...In the SAME situation...With the SAME results...I am soooo feeling this post!
I can relate. I think some times we only want what we can't have. We thrive on the chase, on challenges. Something to fill our heads with wondering why we can't have what we want....If it's available to us it's boring.co
As a man, I admit that the thrill of the chase definitely adds fuel to the fire. I believe that's just the way it is, our nature.
I can remember a time myself where I wanted to be with a certain someone to where it consumed my thoughts day and night. I stopped at nothing.
I feel you....
Thanks Champ. I will check out the site.
awww thank you so much for your kind words! Very much appreciated:-)
Great pick Champ. Thanks for participating in the Shout movement bro!
Ain't it just crazy when you find out that what you have been chasing wasn't worth it!
Well we live and we learn and move on.
@JStar.....RT! I thnk we all have been there at some point. I had 2 learn along time ago the "what could happen did happen". I luv her honesty
@Daij....RT! I thnk we get 2 caught up in rejection at times that we do anything 2 find out why we aren't wanted.
@Don....Thanks 4 stopping by
@eyekandee05 no prblm :)
@JSin...:) us bloggers got 2 stick 2gethr we all got something 2 say.
@BigmaclnPittsburgh....Rt! thanks 4 stopping by :)
NICE idea (shouting out as support!) and a very nice post! u forget why ur doing something when ur clouded by desire... its the theory behind a crush... a crush is fueled by uncertainty... its ur own selfish thrill that keeps it going... once u get what u "think" u want, u realize, it was better left as an idea, not an action.
thanks for sharing this Champ!
@Just "J".....I couldn't agree more :)
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