Do We Need To Fall In Love
Heart: Hello Brain! Today is the day that you are gonna fall in love. As a matter of fact today everybody needs to fall in love! To fall in love is to value another person’s happiness above your own, to want to be with them and make your lives together the best they could possibly be.
Brain: I’ll pass. I’ve been down that dark path before. Making ill advised decisions based on impulse and not common sense. Why risk not being myself for the better of another when all it leads to is a broken heart.
Heart: Are you saying you wouldn’t like to love and be loved? Of course you want to be loved. Your partner is probably out there looking for you right now. You should probably get on this. You know that your biological clock it ticking.
Brain: Hold on their, not everyone needs to fall in love! I’m serious! People get so hung up on finding “the one” that they forget everything else. You can have an entirely rewarding life without being “so madly in love” with someone! Close friendships, beautiful kids, and fulfilling career. Your life doesn’t end because you didn’t find Mr. or Mrs. right .
Heart: Yeah, yeah who wants to be technical? I love because it feels good and when you find that someone it’s worth the risk of heartbreak. Nothing beats the excitement of meeting somebody new and learning the things that you have in common. While falling in Love doesn’t always make sense: it doesn’t have too.
16 comments:
I love it...This is the thought process we go through when debating loving or giving our hear to another
So true... but it seems like no matter how much our brain makes sense we tend to lean towards our heart alittle more.
Always Champ...We are just a sucker for love arent we...Or on the other hand we being so scared, we run from love and feelings...
Love is blind , once you are in love the only thing you will listen to is your heart and sometimes it can mislead you, Nice post !
@ This That, and the other....Definetly! I'm still tryna find balance between my heart and my brain. Thanks 4 ur comment.
I've pretty much followed my heart my entire life, even during the times where I felt like I should have used my brain and exercised better judgement.
@Don I feel u bruh
I will always follow my heart...come what may.
@Mizrpresent.....I can dig it!
hmmmm, i used to follow my heart, now....not so much. but i'm a work in progress
@ericka....I know what you mean. I'm still tryna find balance, between the brain and heart. Thanks 4 stopping by as always.
@Champ i followed mostly my heart a few times when after going into somethings blindly led by false impressions from the other person i then realize i shouldve went wit my brain to save myself the constant pain ive had before by then it was too late. yes there should be a balance between the two. i do think alot of times we trick ourselves into seeing or believing in something that aint there. while the heart n brain are n a constant battle. we tend to hear the lil voices but always second guess ourselves or dont want to believe whats infront of to be true in anyway but the right way. so we often ignore stuff in hopes n pray that it aint so. ppl in general sometimes see only what they want but block out what they need. great post:) very interesting
@Champ also i think in life we have to take certain risk(get your feet wet) with the unknown that way gain experiences in life n learn from them whether good or bad, also your experiences could be of help for the next personre. this world aint perfect and if it had then it would probably wouldnt b as interesting. when you go through stuff it should make you wiser than before that way you can spot bs a mile away.
@Peaches Thankyou! I couldn't agree more :)
@Peaches I believe that your relationship is about taking risk as long as your risk doesn't compromise your morals and standards....It's good when it's good, but when the decision is wrong it can leave permanent scars... at the end of the day God needs 2 walk wit you and your partner thats the only chance you have at making it.
Still following my heart, bro. Good to read this again as well as my previous comment. Far as my heart goes, nothing has changed...
Life dwells in my heart, no disrespect to the Brain.
I can dig it @Don
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