Doin U: At Who’s Expense?



“Doin U” is living your life for you: not a means to an end for others!

This means that I should exist for my own sake, neither sacrificing myself to others, nor sacrificing others to myself! The pursuit of my own rational self-interest, and happiness, is the highest moral purpose of my life!

If I must deal with others,

It should be as Traders, in a pure capitalist system.

No charity! No sympathy! Just business,

an exchange of value for value.

Or in dating terms “Friends With Benefits”!

But where does love fit into this system?

See if everything is viewed as a business arrangement between

Traders without charity, then how can you have love?

Love is supposed to be selfless.

Or is this that New School LOVE?

Where LOVE is selfish. …

If you see someone of value,

and they see value in you…..you

want access to this value, so you

arrange a business transaction.

Love used to be worth the risk smh

Now people are turning into Modern day Hoes

Harsh Reality



Disenchantment comes from the realization that the world isn’t what you perceived it to be! People lie, cheat, and steal and get away with it. Murders become COLD CASES! Marriages end in divorce…while mothers and fathers become Baby Mamas & Baby Daddies.

There are people who only deal with you because they think it might be beneficial to them…(Alcohol, Weed, Money, & Sex).

We are raised in this fairy tale world, where there aren’t any moral grey areas, where good and bad are clear, where there was never any real doubt over which side would win in the end! (Good of course)…but each horrifying death reported in the paper... made you a little more cynical: a little deader inside.

Maybe this sense of disenchantment came from not a flawed society, but a rather growing realization that we ourselves are flawed? Nothing’s more depressing than realizing that you can’t live up to your own hopes, that you’ll never live out your dreams, that you probably let those you care about down every day!

DAMN THAT’S A HARSH REALITY!

OR MAYBE YOU CAN JUST BEAT THE ODDS!

YOU DECIDE

"I Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens Me"



Philippians 4:13

Food 4 Thought

1. Are you too busy acting like a Christian to be one? ...........unkown




2. You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving........unknown



3. Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. .. Martin Luther King Jr.



4. Always love your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.... Oscar Wilde



5. There is a past which is gone forever, but there is a future which is still our own....F W Robertson



6. Time itself is an individual gift. It is wise to cherish it carefully and give it away generously. .....Maya Angelou



7. People spend a lifetime searching for happiness, peace and success. They chase idle dreams, addictions, and religions hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within.......unkown





Is There Enough Room In Your Marriage For Another

This whole “Marriage” subject


has gotten me thinking

about monogamy.


…..Not whether or not I can or have


been monogamous, because that’s a

non issue (not to mention I love my fiancé and value my life as well)

My concern is that people have totally pushed morals to the side.


In the past sharing yourself with more than 1 person was frowned upon….

Not to mention catching sh*t penicillin can’t cure lls and the pain it cost your partner

isn’t quite worth the risk.

The Morals of Marriage have gone by the waist side for what people consider to be “Happiness”

I did some research!

I found a book called “The Ethical Slut”

This book discusses how to live an active


Life with multiple concurrent sexual relationships

in a fair and honest way. Discussion topics include

how to deal with the practical difficulties and opportunities in finding and keeping partners, maintaining

relationships with others, and strategies for personal growth.

 

 

To me this makes a slut sound ethical duh smh… which I’m not here to judge…just stating what I’ve interpreted and to me that makes no sense….It implies that you can love someone, want him or her to be happy…but that shouldn’t change by having sex with additional people.

May be this makes sense to others,

but not to me….

 

When I was younger I probably would have thought it was possible..


but giving yourself to one is the ultimate commitment if you ask me.



The book also posits that an artificial ‘economy of scarcity’ in sex leads to jealousy and possessiveness.



This is pretty much saying that

because sex is ‘rare’ it has and increased value, and is therefore

treasured unreasonably? It’s not anti-monogamy, but it’s pro-polygamy.



Don’t you find that these things don’t usually work

in real life? I know I want my partner

To be happy, but I also want all of her hugs and kisses to myself?

What do you think?

Who's In Control

I’ve been

thinking….

If my decisions

are based on my

desires, and my

desires are just

the product of

genetics and

environmental factors

beyond my control,

then I have no

control over the decisions that I make! Right!

See, If I am a product of my environment or

genetically predisposed, then each actions

I take….. could not have been taken any other way.

Meaning I had No Choice!

Like sleeping with any chick that I know isn’t going benefit me to say the least (UGLY) or (Dysfunctional)  smh

I could say that "Poppa Was A Rolling Stone" and that it’s in me to knock her down…or

all the men in my family are "Alcoholics" so there’s really no avoiding it.

I would also be implying that Free Will doesn’t exist.

Wouldn’t that be convenient?

This Theory fails to account

the fact that we

obviously can make decisions,

and that we do so constantly

on a regular basis…not to mention that

#SlaveryIsOver .

Can you tell me that you

Think that your brain is

Nothing more than a

Complicated computer with

Delusions of

Grandeur?

If you think Yes…

than you

are probably

DRUNK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let’s stop with the #ResponsibilityDeflection

and take back control over our Lives.

Polluted Wisdom

What Are You Listening To?



What Company Are You Keeping?


Luke 8:18 (New King James Version)


18. “Therefore take heed how you hear. For whoever has, to him more will be given; and whoever does not have, even what he seems to have will be taken from him.”

What you have in this life is tied to what you hear on a daily basis and what you hear affects your faith. This is why Jesus goes on to tell His disciples that whoever has, more will be given and whoever does not have, even what he seems to have will be taken from him. If you don’t use your faith, which is a product of what you hear, then you will not be able to obtain or protect the things of this life. That goes the same with who you keep in your presence on a daily basis affects to some degree affect what you believe. …because people around you can have an influence on your thoughts.

People today love not knowing cause Ignorance is #bliss…. And people take pride in not knowing..Listen to the music of today which goes completely against God’s word or gives out false representations of what God’s Word is. You got albums with Love making hits on it and on that same album have the nerve to include gospel songs smh. #MentalGames their playing and the shame is the crime is undetectable by the Feds

Cuz in the head of our kids is where the track is


And the music shoots str8ght to the soul it’s so potent

So much more addictive than crack…now the high is just an illusion

Lies and confusion…but just for that rush the young bucks will listen to it

So in essence… their still flooding these streets with drugs and killing

Their just using record labels to do them.

See America makes you an opportunist..

Then at the same time institutionalize you..

So the fact that you see people getting these fat record deals, big money, then go to jail

Shouldn’t surprise you..


That’s what lies do

and most of these guys have raw talent..just infantile education

So the business feed them

All the weed, ecstasy,

And the little bit of paper to provide

Some pacification from all the bullsh*t

Frustration they serve you

See they took all of our business men and made the drug dealers….

Took all of our messengers and made the rappers ..just flapping their gums afraid to admit their treason.

Took all of our soldiers and made the killer for no reason …

And being f cked up…that’s in this season

So if you’re negative you positive and if you’re positive you’re called a #hater….

That’s why I maintain control over my soul…because I know it get greater later….

And I can do all through God my creator…

That’s why Jesus lets us know by acting on faith, that you will be able to receive and keep all that the Lord has for you. So, If you “do not have”, then you need to check up on what you have been hearing, and consequently believing in your heart and confessing with your mouth.

Getting Into Character: What's Yours

In life we all have a purpose….we all have a fundamental reason we exist.


That’s simply means

that we all have some affect over your life and our own.

We are Mothers…Fathers….Sisters….Brothers…Best friends….Confidants…


employers…employees…and even if you are unemployed, drug addicted and homeless…

Your Lives Are Not In Vain!

More Importantly we are  Men/Women 1st

Some of us grasp our purpose early on, while the rest of us go through a multitude of trials and tribulations to finally figure it out.

Others die trying ….not realizing that your purpose really isn’t that hard to find.

I know that I am guilty of making life harder than it really is….I’ve over analyzed the littlest things,

complicating things that may make one question life itself…..but in the end I found out that

I am faith, trust, hope! I am the profound belief in a power larger and more important than us. I am truth and beauty! I am love and humility!  If you notice faith, trust, hope! I am the profound belief in a power larger and more important than us is the definition of Religion… That’s all we are people… Believe in something  …..You have a better chance at cracking this thing called Life.

Quotes 2 Live By: Don't Be Your Own Worst Enemy

1.       We must learn how to let go of things and have faith that GOD will always do what's best. We can't always see what's best, but GOD can….unkown
2.    A pessimist is one who makes difficulties of his opportunities and an optimist is one who makes opportunities of his difficulties…..unkown
3.       The worst regret we can have in life is not for the wrong things we did, But for the thousands of right things we did for the wrong one…..unkown
4.       Sometimes in life you'll fall apart with a broken heart, but one day you'll realize that you'll be alright….unkown
5.       Please learn the difference between instincts and assumptions: you aren't always right and they aren't always wrong!....Pastor Jamal Bryant
6.       Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure….Marianne Williamson
7.       Optimism is the foundation of courage….. Nicholas Murray Butler
8.       He who can take advice is sometimes superior to him who can give it.…Erica Jong
9.      When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place…unkown
10.    Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, but the realization of how much you already have…..unkown

Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say (God's Word)

Miranda Rights:



2. Anything you say will be held against you in a court of law.



Proverbs 18:21 (NKJV)

21. Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it’s fruit.

Medical science has proven that you are what you eat. So, if you eat rotten apples, what are you going to be? Sick!

The same thing is true with the words you speak. Even just one spoken word can change your life for the better or worse.

You choose for the better or for worse with the words that you speak.

Have you ever talked your way into trouble? Or spoke something negative into in existence?

This is why we must say what the Word of God says. That is what we should be speaking. God’s Word has a solution to every challenge we can face in this lifetime. So we must speak the SOLUTION!

SHOUTOUT THURSDAY: BLOGGERS UNITED

Today's Shoutout is 2 Bubbly Blackgirl

Check Out Getting Over It

http://bubblyblackgirl.wordpress.com/2010/10/14/getting-over-it/

The answers to life inquiries manifests itself in the most unexpected forms. While we can surely seek them out, they’re better received when they reveal themselves, naturally.

Everything we go through in life is a part of a larger journey, that requires us to endure certain parts so that we may grow into better beings. Before we walked we first crawled. We could not ride a bike, without first learning with training wheels, and a helmet, and kneepads.



Such is the same for relationships. No one wakes up one day Married, and or magically with the “Man of their Dreams”. Nor do they abruptly go from a break up to quickly being “Over It!” Hopefully, in due time they will get to that point, where they’ve successfully and happily moved on, but such is not a process that can happen overnight.



I’ve attempted to just cut things off with the Ex. To go cold turkey, and not take his calls or just simply not see him. Besides, everyone has told me to just cut him off completely. I’d heard their stories about how they’d gotten over and moved on from their Infamous Ex(es). The recurring theme had been that one day they had just had enough, and voila they were soon on to the next.



But no one tells of the days before, of cried tears and pathetic wishes on shooting stars. No one utters the longings felt for loves now past. No one tells of the journey that led up to that moment of “Enough. I’m over it.”



Sometime ago, the most random person gave me the best advice about how to deal with the awkward relationship I now have with my Ex. Her words, encouraged me to let things play out between us as they are. Wait, before you holler STUPID, from the tips of your tongue, here’s why.



She confirmed that I would get to that point where I’m fed up or just tired of the back and forth, but the abrupt cut off, only inspires more of the merry-go-round. Instead, she recommended that I let this “quasi” relationship, run its course. The course would get me to that breaking point. And that’s when it will be over.



Surprisingly (or not), I can’t help but to agree with her.



So, instead of fighting the wave, I went along with it. I enjoyed the beautiful moments we shared, such as quiet walks or weekend breakfasts. Even the nights spent together. Instead of fighting in my head, “Where’s this going?” “Why doesn’t he want me back?” I just relaxed and enjoyed it all.



Shortly after, my moment came. Followed by the point where I just couldn’t do it anymore, and the feeling of another tear rolling down my cheek angered me. The thought of telling another, “I HATE MY EX Story”, though, made me laugh. It got to the point where I could no longer be mad at him, but instead at myself for enabling him…Yep, that was the icing of my moment and the motivation I needed to strengthen myself to getting over it.

SHOUTOUT THURSDAY: BLOGGERS UNITED

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The Thrill Of The Chase http://eyekandee05.wordpress.com/

The thought of wanting what you can’t have is what adds fuel to our fire. Is it that you really want what you are seeking so desperately, simply because you can’t have it? Some of us operate this way. I can remember a time myself where I wanted to be with a certain someone to where it consumed my thoughts day and night. I stopped at nothing. Every trick and tactic you can think of; I did. And yet, it got me nowhere. It was only after I realized I was driving myself insane did I stop.  It took absolutely no time for him to come knocking on my door trying to get back in once he figured out I had moved on. I ended up going back simply because I had wanted the relationship to work for so long, or so I thought. To be honest, I was completely miserable! I was in a place where my heart wasn’t and I’m not the type of person to fake it till I make it, so I bounced…I guess it was just the thrill of the chase (rejection).

Live Your Life For you: Understanding Ethical Relativsm



I’m 30yrs old now and I’d have to say

that I pretty much know what’s best for me by now. I’m not implying that I know everything, but I’ll be the judge of me and you be the judge of you.

I have absolutely no right to judge your beliefs and you have no right to judge mine.

What’s the point!

All beliefs and ethics are “relative” anyway!

I drink this Henny because I feel it’s what I want to do! Don’t judge me! Even if you believe its wrong…… Which one of us is right anyway? What you can’t handle might be fine for me.

It can be argued that in every rational person (the definition of “rational” is touchy subject I won’t explain for now) there are certain properties common to all. The problem ( well, one problem) with relativism is how it, nihilistically privileges the experience of the individual above all else, making every ethical decision the right ethical decision: who would not like to have his or her beliefs guaranteed to be as correct as anybody else’s? But this is done at the cost of ignoring our shared qualities, turning away from the fact that despite different languages and cultures (and continents and skin colors) we all believe some of the same things. With that striking fundamental truth removed, the Prostitutes and the Saints stand side by side, equals in righteousness. What do you think?

Why We Buy (Subliminal Messages)

This A Blast From The Past

I was 18 when I wrote this how lame lol



Wow! I feel corny lls...but I wanted to share any ways

so tell me what you think and be honest :)

Did you hear those words underneath the loud lyrics

or was you just a victim of your inner desires

that held you hostage in this game

of supply and demand.

We’re you oblivious, or did you just lack self-control.

Either way you didn’t walk to the beat of

your own drum and now you stand still

in line wondering how did you get here in the first place.

See your conscious mind told you

that it wasn’t okay to buy that, but the

waves within sound system told you otherwise.

While you thought you were

listening to Janet Jackson over those speakers,

there were subliminal messages that attacked

your mind like a plague on your immune system.

With your brain occupied, your reasoning becomes impaired

 leaving you capable of buying any

and everything the store has to offer.

When you realized you were home

your brain took back over and as you go

to open your bags: a Mariah Carey CD

Who the f ck bought that!

On This Day

Mend a quarrel. Search out

a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion,

and replace it with trust.

Write a love letter. Share some

treasure. Give a soft answer.

Encourage youth. Manifest your

Loyalty in a word or deed.

Keep a promise. Find the

time. Forgo a grudge. Forgive

an enemy. Listen. Apologize if

you were wrong. Try to understand.

Flout envy. Examine your

demands on others. Think first of

someone else. Appreciate, be kind,

be gentle. Laugh a little more.

Deserve confidence. Take up

Arms against malice. Decry complacency.

Express your gratitude.

Worship God. Gladden the

heart of a child. Take pleasure

in the beauty and wonder of the

earth. Speak your love. Speak it

again. Speak it still again. Speak

it still once again.

SAVIOR FOR HIRE

Jesus Christ

Address: Ephesians 1:20

Cell # Prayer

Website: The Bible. Keywords: Christ, Lord, Savior, Jesus

 

Hello. My name is Jesus-The Christ. Many call me Lord! I’ve sent you my resume because I’m seeking the top management position in your heart. Please consider my accomplishments as set forth in my resume.
 
 
Qualifications:

• I founded the earth and established the heavens, (See Proverbs 3:19).
• I formed man from the dust of the ground, (See Genesis 2:7).
• I breathed into man the breath of life, (See genesis 2:7).
• I redeemed man from the curse of law, (See Galatians 3:13).
• The blessings of the Abrahamic Covenant comes upon your life through me, (See Galatians 3:14).

Occupational Background

• I’ve only had one employer, (See Luke 2:49).
• I’ve never been tardy, absent, disobedient, slothful or disrespectful.
• My employer has nothing but rave reviews for me, (See Matthew 3:15-17).

Skills/Work Experiences

• Some of my skills and work experiences include: empowering the poor to be poor no more, healing the brokenhearted, setting the captives free, healing the sick, restoring sight to the blind and setting at liberty them that are bruised, (See Luke 4:18).
• I am Wonderful, Counselor, (See Isaiah 9:6). People who listen to me shall dwell safely and shall not fear evil, (See Proverbs 1:33).
• Most importantly, I have the authority, ability and power to cleanse you of your sins, (See I John 1:7-9).

Education Background

• I encompass the entire breadth and length of knowledge, wisdom and understanding, (See Proverbs 2:6).
• In me are hidden all of the treasures of wisdom and knowledge, (See Colossians 2:3).
• My Word is so powerful; it has been described as being a lamp unto your feet and a lamp unto your path, (See Psalms 119:105).
• I can even tell you all of the secrets of your heart, (See Psalms 44:21).

Major Accomplishments

• I was an active participant in the greatest Summit Meeting of all times, (See Genesis 1:26).
• I laid down my life so that you may live, (See II Corinthians 5:15).
• I defeated the archenemy of God and mankind and made a show of them openly, (See Colossians 2:15).
• I’ve miraculously fed the poor, healed the sick and raised the dead!
• There are many more major accomplishments, too many to mention here. You can read them on my website, which is located at: www.Thebible. You don’t need the Internet Connection or computer to access my website.

References




The great Teacher-my father, JEHOVAH (Psalms 83:18)
Believers and followers worldwide will testify to my divine healings, salvation, deliverance, miracles, restoration and supernatural guidance. In Summation Now that you’ve read my resume, I’m confident that I’m the only candidate uniquely qualified to fill this vital position in your heart. In summation, I will properly direct your path, (See Proverbs 3:5-6), and lead you into everlasting life, (See John 6:47). When can I start? Time is essence, (See Hebrews 3:15).



He is already Hired in my heart: What about you?

Quotes 2 Live By: Road 2 Success

God uses PAIN to Inspect us,Correct us,Direct us & Perfect us.

"Discontent is the first necessity of progress." — Thomas A. Edison

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

“High achievement always takes place in the framework of high expectation.” -Jack Kinder

“Our strength often increases in proportion to the obstacles imposed upon it.”-Paul De Rapin

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. ~Dale Carnegie

The road to achieving great things always has adversity. If there's a road with no obstacles, it probably leads to nowhere.

The Versatile and Beautful Blogger Award

I’m Still Raw, But ThankYou!

     

I want to thank MsKnowItAll and Mizrepresent for awarding me with the Versatile and Beautiful Blogger Award. Mizpresent sorry 4 taking so long, but I just found out the proper blogger etiquette lol.

As a recipient of the versatile and beautiful blogger award, I must provide seven random facts about myself….

1. At times I can be one to be considered a know it all which is a blessing and a curse. Ppl come to me for answers all the time, but when I offer a friendly advise I’m often hit with “you think you know everything”… see it’s not that I think I know everything, it’s just I’m an independent research guy and I know what I know if you know what I mean lol.

2. I Coach little league football (Rosedale Cowboys 13 under) and I’m a diehard Redskins fan which can be a conflict of interest I suppose lol. I loves my football and wouldn’t change either.



3. I’m also a pretty good artist and have won numerous awards and contest over the years….something ppl closed to me would only know. I paint, sketch, calligraphy. I do it all.



4. I love movies I remember everything that puts a smile on my face and I can quote movies with the best of them. Sometimes I feel like I am a walking movie. “Once again I say what you scared to say, but u thinking the same God damn thing”….Bernie Mac Kings of Comedy Lls . Ppl think I’m pretty fun even though I’m just being myself minus the movie quotes.



5. I’m very big on Fam. Loves my family and my Kids to death. Without them I’m nothing. They make my soul smile.



6. I work at the College of NotreDame in the billing dept I also run the Mail Services dept. It can be very demanding, but I multi-task it pretty good, just wish I could multi-task my personal life a little better.



7. Best for last even though he is First in my life. I’m a man of God I’m proud to say it. Aint no shame in my game. I’m always working on self and I know that I’m nothing without him.

 
I will award a few bloggers for both awards




I will award a few bloggers for both awards

The Versatile Blogger                                                         
Mizrepresent                                                                        
Don Minusthebars                                                                
MsKayz                                                                                 
Reggie                                                                                   

Beautiful Blogger
MsKnowitAll
I.Am.Spoken.Word
JStar
Kween_ofLove
joskidiesel                                                                                               

Promiscuity: The Double Standard

I know that a lot of you readers out there know all about the double standard between men and women. People tend to believe that men have it easier than women when it comes to being Promiscuous. It's Very True! Men do have it easier, but men don't get off scott free. While women tend to get judged more by their peers, men tend to have more problems in their relationships. Yeah our girlfriends my not call us skanks and sluts, but they do raise their eyebrows when it comes to giving us their complete trust. Men are more than likely to except a woman with a Promiscuous past than a woman would of a man. When have you seen a women come home to her family and introduced her stripper boyfriend. Not that all strippers are promiscuous, but men fall in love with strippers all the time. They even have songs glorifying it like... "I'm in love with a stripper" by T-Pain or the movie "Pretty Woman" where Richard Gere falls in love with the prostitue Julia Roberts . While women are being put down for the exploits they are more likely to be forgiven. People question their upbringing, childhood, etc......but on the otherhand men we are just dogs, immoral beings so to speak. All men want is sex according to society. We underline what's in bold "Promiscuity", but does anyone really care why.

I Have A Mission: by John Henry

I am created to do something or to be something for which no else is created; I have a place in God’s counsel in God’s world, which no one else has; whether I be rich or poor, despised or esteemed by man, God knows me and calls me by name.


God has created me to do Him some definite service; He has committed some work to me which He has not committed to another. I have my mission. I may never know it in this life, but I shall be told it in the next. Somehow I am necessary for His purposes…..

I am a link in a chain, a bond of connection between persons. He has not created me for nothing. I shall do good; I shall do His work. I shall be an angel of peace, a preacher of truth in my own place, while not intending it, if I do but keep His commandments.

THEY SAY MONEY CAN'T BUY LOVE, BUT I WOULD SURE IN HELL LIKE TO FIND OUT

I was asked to write a blogg about why “Men equate love with giving gifts (also used for fake apologies), while Women equate love by cooking and cleaning”. Sorry it took so long for me to write about it, but I’m writing about it now. I don’t personally think gifts equal love, but I could understand how a man may think gifts are an equal way of showing love. First of all real men are givers by nature so anything that he could give to his significant other may make him feel as if he is showing her some form of love. Note that I said "real men". When you see the look in your women’s eyes after you have given a present, you can tell that she feels some form of love or affection. Secondly I have never known a female who met a gift that she didn’t like. I’m not trying to be offensive in anyway, but theirs more demand for what a man can do with his pockets then that of a women. Usually you win her over by doing nice things for her. Not necessarily buying gifts, but by taken her out to movies, dinner, or by sending flowers. I do believe that men do more than buy gifts to show love, but it’s usually overlooked when the gifts stop coming in. The first thing your girl would tell you is you don’t do the things you used to do. That’s usually centered around something financial. All of a sudden your jokes aren’t enough anymore. Neither is your charming personality.

Remember the phrases “no romance without finance” or “what have you done for me lately". Independent women of today don’t want a man with less than what they have, even though men still are willing to take a woman with less .Even men who make less money than his girlfriend still end up spending more money showering her with gifts. As far as men using gifts to break the ice in the form of an apology…. that depends on the women. Again something that I’ve never done or at least I don’t think I’ve done consciously. I know men are opportunist and will take advantage of anything that will get him out of a situation. If you are that simple that you can’t see when he is buying your forgiveness than that’s a damn shame. When I am mad at a women the only thing that you can do to resolve the situation is to take responsibility for your part in the situation, no gift can overturn that. I guess that’s what’s makes men and women different huh.

I’m no cave man, but in 2010 women aren’t that big on cooking or cleaning. Even when they stay at home instead of working they are more concerned with proving to you that women don’t have to cook or clean anymore than they are with just taking on a role of some form. I do believe that there are some women who are still willing to cook or clean for their men, but not that many. I know the question was geared towards the women who cook or clean so here we go. Men are big kids; it doesn’t take much to satisfy most of us. Feeding us and taking care the house hold makes a man feel like what he is doing is worth while. We love to feel appreciated and the women in our life who are willing to do those things will inherit man who will go through extreme measures to put a smile on there face.

It’s not just about us being lazy, it’s about appreciation. Real men and note that I said real can’t be bought and since most of us do provide (that’s real men again) instead of gifts we prefer a nice home cooked meal. Give him a sandwhich and some peace while he watches the game and he will probably make you his wife lls.